Cut Off The Source

This year people have been aggressively turning the focus in on themselves and that’s producing a lot of ego play. If you’re a naturally giving person, this is an important time to intensely observe the people you spend time with the most. It’s important that you notice when other people are putting pressures on you from a self-serving place.
 

I keep seeing this again and again in sessions, people who make themselves small so others in their lives can shine brighter. A sensitive and giving person can often see this as a selfless act, one that comes from a giving place. What you must understand is that every time you do that, the other person feeds off of it, fueling their desire for needing it more and forever defining that as a cornerstone of your relationship. You give, they take and it goes on and on until you are completely depleted. Lowering your vibration to boost theirs, keeps the cycle going. Even though you mean it as such a beautiful and pure gift, the one taking to shine brighter uses it to feed their ego. Your gift and YOU become something they can manipulate. 

If you have found yourself in this toxic pattern with someone, there is only one solution: CUT OFF THE SOURCE. We do not feed others egos with the sacrifice of our own energy.

Noticing the confusion around this means you want clarity. I can help you see clearly about other’s intentions and whether or not they help serve your higher purpose. I can guide you, to quickly and effectively stop the pattern you have become accustomed to.

Book a session with me to help you move past this.